I can’t tell you my child is gifted. Here’s why, plus an explanation of how a gifted mind means more than having a growth mindset.
Want to know why I can’t tell you my child is gifted?
“Some people, including some teachers, have built their identity on the idea they can do well in mathematics because they are special, genetically superior to others.”
“The labeling of students as gifted hurts not only the students who are deemed as having no gifts but also the students who are given the gifted label, as it sets them on a fixed mindset pathway, making them vulnerable and less likely to take risks in order to avoid making mistakes and potentially losing their gifted label.”
“Everyone can learn math well, not only those believed to hold a ‘gift’.”
That’s why. Because no matter how often we explain what giftedness really is, people like Dr. Boaler just don’t get it.
Giftedness is not a matter of superiority.
Giftedness is not a matter of labels.
Giftedness is not a matter of “gifts”.
Giftedness is wiring. It is a biological construct; the inherent make-up of a person’s brain.
It’s also a hell of a cross to bear, and the above arguments doesn’t make it any easier.
My oldest child is gifted.
She also failed out of kindergarten.
My daughter entered the classroom as a five year old, reading and writing at a sixth grade level.
Her failure wasn’t because she lacked persistence. There was no “fixed mindset pathway.”
My daughter actually took plenty of risks. So many, in fact, they threw her out.
My second child is gifted.
She also can’t read, despite being 75% of the way through 1st grade.
She is the most tenacious, strong-willed spirit you would ever hope to meet.
Sheer will hasn’t been enough to move her through.
My third child is probably gifted.
He’s two, so we haven’t had him evaluated.
If we were working to espouse an elitist culture, we’d have had him tested and labeled by now.
Except he’s a toddler, not a specimen.
I get what Dr. Boaler is saying.
Math is math. A lot of children believe they aren’t good at it. When we separate the those who “can” from those who “can’t” (as modern education is wont to do), there’s a good possibility the can’ts won’t even get to try.
Education should be an equal opportunity employer. Every child deserves a level playing field and the same educational choices.
But Dr. Boaler misses the mark when she blames the “gifted movement” for a decline in Math performance.
First of all, there is no such movement.
There are only parents, advocating for their children to get the support they need. Gifted children may be gifted, but they still need support, encouragement, and the occasional accommodation.
Secondly, while every child is a gift, not every child is gifted.
No amount of hard work or perseverance will change that.
Thirdly, designating a child as gifted does not elevate them to a lifetime of special treatment.
If anything, it functions the same was as any other special need: allowing children to access the services they need.
I can’t back up my argument with statistics.
I don’t have access to research studies.
I don’t have a Phd. I haven’t founded a think tank. I haven’t published a book.
But I have been a mother, a mother who has seen her gifted children struggle in the very environment Boaler espouses. It’s an environment in which students aren’t respected as individuals with individual talents, but as worker bees in a collective hive. It’s the reason I homeschool, to escape the presumption that a positive attitude and stick-to-itiveness are all you need to overcome one’s challenges.
Tell that to Hermann and Pauline Einstein, when their son is still largely illiterate at the age of eight.
Tell that to the gifted students who failed my ninth grade English class.
Tell that to my children who most likely will never step foot in a school.
And then turn to me and tell me that they just need to work harder, not smarter.
That’s why I can’t tell you my child is gifted.
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